State Of Mind

Tragedy strikes many a times in life. It strikes again and again and leaves one in despair. It might crush you or break you completely. You might crumble through the process with those heart wrenching moments flashing before your eyes as tears trickle down your cheeks, or you might just cherish those wonderful memories and walk through the troubles times. As is believed, a man who proves his metal in dire times is the one who lives his life the fullest. Grief gets you nothing other than more grief to dwell in. It leaves you vulnerable, agitated and most importantly, grief leaves you lonely.
How you respond towards problems in life is very important. Are you a person who tries to solve his problem or are you that person who goes crying about it. We may approach a problem differently, but as long as we are not running away from it, we are headed the right way. It is all about having that right state of  mind which pushes you to do more with your life than to just reflect upon sad memories of the past and neglect your present life. Positive attitude can get you places where you could never imagine you would end up being in. As M K Gandhi Once said  "If Ï believe that I cannot do something, it makes me incapable of doing it.But when I believe that I can, then I acquire the ability to do it even if I did not have."
Hence, we can always get through tough times. Its all a matter of perspective and hence the right approach is very important. The ones who walk the path less trodden, try to stretch out their comfort zones are the ones who ultimately end up marching the path to glory. Just thinking about how good things could have been and then regretting about all the lost opportunities in life will leave you with nothing but hollowness and discontentment.
  

She Will Be Loved

The surreal beauty encompasses the heart and emboldens a sense of rave happiness which was never found before. Few may say it is infatuation, a momentary flux that runs through the veins and drives you into another dreamy world bereft of any vexation. But sometimes, its not something momentary but rather, something that you walk along, something that holds a deeper meaning to your very existence, something lovely and heart warming. It is love.
The idea of love is very skewed. People seem to have different versions of it, owing to their own varied experience. Love maybe for family, friends, neighbours , pets , toys, food and many other things. A loving and a caring person is a very blessed soul. Love in its various forms may be expressed differently but the idea and intent should remain the same.
I know how it is to be loved and to love. It is the most beautiful thing that might happen to a person. When you fall in love with a person, the world seems different, it seems as if you have found a bigger reason to make your mortal existence worth while. But love comes at a price. A price which though will ensure the sustenance of your relationship, the endurance for that pain is something that will test you in every aspect of your life. It is only when you stand tall to all the trouble that befalls you, will that love grow and continue to maintain its grip on that loving heart