Here is a fun concept that i recently was made aware by one of my ' socially ' happening friend. Our conversations might seem bereft of any lucidity to a third person sitting there, but makes complete sense to us.We have passionate discussions involving philosophies to clearly stupid ones like speculating to where the dog might end up pooping. But nevertheless, they are interesting.
The topic wasn't really centered around a potent issue but basically about the kind off guys girls usually date. Though in a way, over a period of time i have come to believe that girls usually tend to let their vivid imagination run off to extreme levels where they not only dream about their perfect match, but also have worked out their marriage details. What guys might perceive as absolutely stupid and waste of time is something that the girls like dwelling in.
So my friend put forth the idea of ' pity project' and is sounded a little fancy. As he dug into the details of the same, i had that moment where i suddenly swelled up all overwhelmed because that moment was the moment i realized that my friend had given words to the exact same thoughts which i had had.
Have you ever seen a girl who might be super smart, talented and very sweet but at the same time stuck up with a no-life individual, whose sole agenda in life seems to be ' why should i be the only one to go down to hell'. That guy is none other than that girl's 'Pity Project'. Yes, you heard that right. Consider life to be a horse racing competition. You are one of the competent horses who through those blinders only sees the finish line, while there stands a horse at the back who is completely oblivious to his own very existence or is too afraid to compete. Now throw the girls into the picture. The girls sees that particular horse in a very different manner. She not only sympathizes, but rather feels that it is an obligation on her part to help him. She loves the underachievers. Over a period of time, the guy will become too clingy ,for male psychology is interesting too. He sees that out of nowhere, a girl as beautiful as her has come into his life. He lets himself be led into a false illusion of love and tries to become overbearing and domineering in their pseudo relationship, for the girls is too sympathetic to actually show the guy his place. Moreover, relationships should ideally involve parity among st both individuals, the day that ceases to exist, love ceases to exist.
Lastly, i don't mean to generalize, but the concept of pity project is applicable to a lot of individuals.
The topic wasn't really centered around a potent issue but basically about the kind off guys girls usually date. Though in a way, over a period of time i have come to believe that girls usually tend to let their vivid imagination run off to extreme levels where they not only dream about their perfect match, but also have worked out their marriage details. What guys might perceive as absolutely stupid and waste of time is something that the girls like dwelling in.
So my friend put forth the idea of ' pity project' and is sounded a little fancy. As he dug into the details of the same, i had that moment where i suddenly swelled up all overwhelmed because that moment was the moment i realized that my friend had given words to the exact same thoughts which i had had.
Have you ever seen a girl who might be super smart, talented and very sweet but at the same time stuck up with a no-life individual, whose sole agenda in life seems to be ' why should i be the only one to go down to hell'. That guy is none other than that girl's 'Pity Project'. Yes, you heard that right. Consider life to be a horse racing competition. You are one of the competent horses who through those blinders only sees the finish line, while there stands a horse at the back who is completely oblivious to his own very existence or is too afraid to compete. Now throw the girls into the picture. The girls sees that particular horse in a very different manner. She not only sympathizes, but rather feels that it is an obligation on her part to help him. She loves the underachievers. Over a period of time, the guy will become too clingy ,for male psychology is interesting too. He sees that out of nowhere, a girl as beautiful as her has come into his life. He lets himself be led into a false illusion of love and tries to become overbearing and domineering in their pseudo relationship, for the girls is too sympathetic to actually show the guy his place. Moreover, relationships should ideally involve parity among st both individuals, the day that ceases to exist, love ceases to exist.
Lastly, i don't mean to generalize, but the concept of pity project is applicable to a lot of individuals.
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